Why I Built Allowable
I'm a stepdad. In a blended family, asking a kid to do chores or "earn" allowance can turn personal fast.
I didn't want money or responsibilities to feel emotional. And I definitely didn't want to be the bad guy. So I built a neutral system.
Tasks are defined upfront with clear deadlines. Proof is required. Missed responsibilities have predictable outcomes. No negotiations. No nagging.
Now the system sets the rules, not me. Conversations are calmer, and my stepkids are learning how responsibility actually works.